January 10th 2018.
‘The key to being happy is knowing you have the power to chose what to accept and what to let go.’
Happy:
‘At times, I feel held back by self-doubt. I lose my confidence and this stops me achieving my goals. Is there anything holding you back in life that you can make a conscious effort to thwart this year?’
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If you asked me last year what things held me back i’d of blamed everything else but what I was doing myself. I would tell myself that I was doing everything possible, everything possible to pass my driving test, everything possible to get a job, when really I was too busy telling myself this excuse rather than actually doing them things. I have realised what was holding me back and I have worked on them.
I feel so much more in control of my feelings, my emotions, my reactions, my life.
Today I attended my 4th therapy session and I left feeling amazing. I walked home like I did not have a care in the world, I felt elated. My therapist told me how much of a different person I was now than when I started.
Before christmas I was a weak person, I hated taking responsibility for my own actions, I hated admitting I was wrong, I couldn’t face issues that were right in front of me, I was broken. I was scared to acknowledge pain that I spent so long trying to forget, move past or ignore. In reality, that was what made me depressed in the first place.
The word ‘change’ really scared me. The fear of the unknown always kicked in, but I was made aware today that I was the one that had changed– and I couldn’t believe how good I felt. I get a tear in my eye just thinking about the self-progression over the past 2 months, the difference in my personality and I think self-reflection has really helped me with that.
I only changed some small trivial things and it wasn’t until somebody noticed and mentioned the difference in me, did I really see it myself. I changed the way I reacted to situations, I changed expectations, I changed my focusses, I changed the way I looked at my life, I changed my negative thoughts into positives, I changed my weakness’ into strengths- these are all things that anybody can achieve with a little belief in yourself.
#365DaysOfHappiness:
‘Never be ashamed of your story, who you are, or what you have been through, It’s what you’ve overcome & made you the person you are today… Your story may be the hope, strength & courage that speaks to the heart and inspires someone else’s life.’
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My story isn’t over, I’m not completely and utterly happy but i’ve passed the first milestone and that is an incredible feeling. Anybody that wants to reach out to me for advice, to chat about your issues or to simply vent to somebody in a similar situation, I’m always happy to help! Getting to your first milestone needs to be 100% your own journey but sometimes having a little vent will help along the way to complete your own happiness story.
I am not ashamed of who I am, I am not ashamed of my story, I am not ashamed of what I’ve been through… I’m ashamed that I thought I would be judged for being myself and I’m ashamed that I believed no body would care enough to help me.
I.S